Bridal shower · Wedding reception · Rehearsal dinner
He said, she said: who's more likely to say it
“Where are my keys?” “Five more minutes.” Every couple has lines that only one of them says. The couple decides ahead of time which of them says each one, guests guess, and the reveal settles it. It works with any couple, and it's even better when both partners are in the room.
Play it live
Questions on the TV, guests answer from their phones, the reveal and the scores are automatic. Free for up to 15 guests. The live game starts with the first 12; swap in any of the others in the editor.
Set up a live gameFree printable
A print-ready PDF in US Letter or A4, plus matching signs for the gifts, cards, favors and drinks.
How to play
- 1Have the guest of honor answer every question ahead of time, in secret.
- 2Show one question at a time on the big screen, or read it aloud.
- 3Guests pick or write their answer.
- 4Reveal the real answer. Every correct guess scores a point.
- 5The guest who knows them best wins.
Running it for your group
- A small group
- Under a dozen guests: read each question aloud and let guests call out answers, or pass round the printed sheet and mark it together at the end.
- A big room
- Thirty guests or more: don't read answers aloud one by one. Put the questions on a screen and let guests answer on their phones, or have neighbors swap sheets and mark each other's.
- Guests on a video call
- On a video call: share the big screen and let everyone answer from their own phone, so the reveal happens for the room and the call at the same moment.
The 20 questions
1.Who is more likely to say: “Where are my keys?”
The bride · The groom
2.Who is more likely to say: “Let's just order takeout.”
The bride · The groom
3.Who is more likely to say: “I'm not lost, I'm exploring.”
The bride · The groom
4.Who is more likely to say: “Five more minutes.”
The bride · The groom
5.Who is more likely to say: “I'm not hungry, I'll just have some of yours.”
The bride · The groom
6.Who is more likely to say: “We should get a dog.”
The bride · The groom
7.Who is more likely to say: “Is it too early for holiday music?”
The bride · The groom
8.Who is more likely to say: “I'll be ready in two minutes.”
The bride · The groom
9.Who is more likely to say: “Can we leave yet?”
The bride · The groom
10.Who is more likely to say: “Just one more episode.”
The bride · The groom
11.Who is more likely to say: “I already told you that.”
The bride · The groom
12.Who is more likely to say: “Who finished the milk?”
The bride · The groom
13.Who is more likely to say: “That's not what I said.”
The bride · The groom
14.Who is more likely to say: “Let's rearrange the furniture.”
The bride · The groom
15.Who is more likely to say: “I can fix it myself.”
The bride · The groom
16.Who is more likely to say: “What do you want for dinner?”
The bride · The groom
17.Who is more likely to say: “I'll wash it later.”
The bride · The groom
18.Who is more likely to say: “Did you lock the door?”
The bride · The groom
19.Who is more likely to say: “We need a vacation.”
The bride · The groom
20.Who is more likely to say: “I love you more.”
The bride · The groom
Questions people ask
- How do you play he said, she said?
- The couple picks, in private, which partner is more likely to say each line. At the party, guests guess for each line, and everyone who matches the couple's pick scores a point.
- What if the couple disagrees on an answer?
- That's half the fun. Let them argue it out loud at the reveal, then the host taps whichever answer wins.
- Does it work for two brides or two grooms?
- Yes. The live version uses the couple's names instead of he and she, so it reads right for any couple.
- Can we play this live instead of on paper?
- Yes. Put the questions on a TV or laptop, guests join from their phones with a QR code, and the answers are revealed on the big screen with scores kept for you. It's free for up to 15 guests.